Freedom from Stuff

My husband and I started looking at our home and realized we needed to downsize our possessions. To de-stuff-ify our lives, we decided to take two paths. One involves sorting and getting rid of things. That part is easy. Kind of. He felt it was easy to get rid of my stuff and I thought his junk could go. Somewhere down the line we compromised and most everything lays in the “get rid of pile.” The other path involves not filling the space back up again with new junk. In today’s consumer driven world, that is not as easy as it should seem.

The Easy Part

The plan was easy for some items. No more buying Star Trek tribbles (my husband has a dozen so far and I fear they’re breeding), large games like Zombies!!!, or any more decorative pretties like lovely, swirly glass balls (one of our kryptonites). Saying no to things like this means we save money and our already burdened shelves don’t go into overflowing.

The Emotional Part

So many things in a person’s home usually has deep memories attached to them. It may be a child’s finger-painting, gifts from distant friends or t-shirts from a favorite rock band. All of it has “special” moments attached, which is where the emotion comes in. Still, the memories remain even after the t-shirt becomes a rag or when the finger-painter graduates college. Don’t let things burden your memories, particularly if you have to spend lots of money to preserve them.

House lady

From Labyrinth. What I don’t want to become

The Hard Part

My husband calls me a hobby magpie. I love trying new things. In the years he has known me, I have tried bead work (with and without jewelry), rag rug weaving, quilting, Chinese painting, calligraphy, drawing, fairy gardening, gardening, canning, food dehydration (jerky making), bow shooting, golfing, bowling, carving, wood burning, lathe work (bowls and pens) Before we met, I did jewelry casting, painting, embroidery, crewel work, counted cross stitch, sewing clothes, leather work, and macramé. I’d try a hobby long enough to become good at it or stay terrible and then I moved on to the next one. My husband drew the line at woodworking, saying “you aren’t moving on from this,” because of the large, expensive equipment (foolish man! I just need more woodworking tools!).

The down side to all this is that over the years I’ve collected giant tubs of leftover hobby materials that have subsequently filled the basement and the garage, and that is not counting the lathe and band saw. This includes a 60-gallon tub sits nearly bursting with sorted boxes of beads because I’ve never seen a sparkly bead that I didn’t like. At least three tubs have fabrics of various sizes, including two-inch strips. Then there’s the bottles inks that haven’t been opened in 15 years. Now that I’m getting rid of these possessions, I need to find new homes for them.

Craft Sales are Evil!

One huge reason I’ve accumulated so much stuff was due to craft sales. Fabric is pretty expensive so the Joanne Fabrics 50% off sales are my heroin addiction. I go in to find one piece of material as a backer for a nearly finished quilt and come out with over a hundred dollars of 10+ fabrics for this pretty quilt in my mind. My justification, “but they were on sale!” I then wash the fabrics, fold them nicely and store them until I have time. That means time enough for the idea to disappear and me to find them a year or more later and wonder, “what was I going to do with this weird orange color? Cowboy fabric? What the hell was I thinking?”

Beads were the same way. The rainbow of sparkly colors hanging on threats across the craft store’s wall beckoned to me. “Buy me! Love me! I’ll look gorgeous in an opera length necklace!” Most of them are still huddling, crying piteously, in the darkness of the green tub.

Wood is also a problem. After all, nature’s glory comes in many lovely shades of tan, browns, reds and even blacks. The wood grains create artistry that becomes gorgeous in the final product. Yet wood is expensive and rare woods are hard to find. So when I go into a Rockler or a Woodcraft store and run my fingers over the lovely play of light and dark, you can bet I’m going to buy some. Luckily, they don’t run as many sales and are too far away for frequent visits.

The other problem with wood for lathe work is that you can get it for free if you are around when a maple or cherry tree goes down. The garage is filled with free wood chunks waiting to transform into beautiful bowls.

Freedom from Shopping

America’s rabid consumerism through TV ads, paper flyers, emails, and text alerts on sales all feature the same kind of frantic “buy it now or you’ll never ever have another chance again!” feeling. One day near Christmas, I was walking the local mall, knowing I already had all my gifts and our checkbook was close to empty. Yet the flood of garish displays, people handing out samples, advertisements on loudspeakers and more, felt like a pressure similar to before massive violent storm. Shop! Spend! Gifts! Treats! It was never-ending. I left the mall with a pounding headache and a vague sense of guilt. The guilt is what the marketers want you to feel. Since then, I avoid shopping in December.

The Power to Say No

When my husband and I embraced the idea of downscaling, I felt like someone gave me permission to stop buying things. I felt lighter and freer. Somehow, I had become the old woman from Labyrinth, bent over from the weight of all my possessions. But now it was different. I had my goal in mind and purchasing more fabric, fancy wood, games, and pretty babbles were not needed. It gave me a much stronger power to say no.

So now I delete the ads and throw away the sales flyers. I’m sure Joanne, Michaels, Rockler, and others will survive without my money. If they don’t, oh well, it’s not my fault. I will still create beautiful things, only now by using up the stored material. Some crafts, I’m simply not doing anymore, like rag rugs and bead work. Goodwill will get the t-shirts and bed sheets I saved for that. The beads will go to friends or in garage sales.

This first step in our journey to paring down the possessions was harder and more emotional than I thought it would be. However, afterwards we will feel better and less burdened. We’ll also be able to save a bit of money. And that is always a good idea.

Black Hole Bliss: A Model of Cooperation

The news last week was filled with the beautiful image of a supermassive black hole, the first picture ever taken on one. In order to do this, it took 200 scientists, 60 institutes, and 18 countries from 6 continents in an amazing feat of cooperation for the glory of science.

Some cool facts

A few cool facts about the black hole in the Messier 87 galaxy:

It is slightly larger than our solar system. In fact, it is 100 billion kilometers wide and 6.5 billion times more massive than our sun.1

Closer black holes exist, such as the one in our own galaxy, but we didn’t choose to image them. The reason for this is that they are smaller. Although Messier 87 is outside our galaxy and inside another, its size made it easier to image. 1

We are not seeing the “black hole” because gravity is so strong at that point that not even light can escape. What we see is the light in orbit around it, the ergosphere.

At the center of the black hole everything is crushed into the smallest conceivable space, the singularity. Science doesn’t really know what goes on there, but I like call it the universe’s trash compactor.

According to Wikipedia, the galaxy that contains this black hole is no slouch on size. It is referred to as a supergiant elliptical galaxy in Virgo and one of the most massive galaxies in the universe. This makes sense when you are talking about such a massive black hole at its core.2

Messier 87 galaxy

Messier 87 galaxy

The achievement is due to the Event Horizon Telescope project using an array of observatories scattered from Hawaii to the South Pole. The information took up a petabyte of storage. I can’t even picture a terabyte in my computer so have no clue how big a petabyte is.3

The “picture,” which was formed from radio waves, was taken in April 2017. It took two years of working with the data to create the image.3

According to my “in-house” expert, this black whole contains almost all the mass of all the stars in our Milky Way galaxy, scrunched down into a volume somewhat equal to our solar system. That’s a lot more crowded than a Japanese subway during rush hour.

Science as a model of cooperation.

As cool as all these facts are, the one that I’m impressed with is that 60 institutes in 18 different countries cut through all the fame-seeking and political crap that weigh down countries themselves to pull together and create something nearly magical in its enormity. Given the current climate of isolationism and hate-mongering in America now, hearing how people reached past that for a common goal is pretty inspiring.

Fermi Telescope

Fermi Gamma-ray Space Telescope

Having said that, I know science, particularly physics and astronomy, has turned to big collaborations and projects because it takes massiveness to see in the depths of space or the smallest particle. The Large Hadron Collider at CERN is a fine example of a large collaboration, as was Hubble, and the Fermi Gamma-ray Space Telescope.

Still, science can also have competition as researchers race each other for Noble prizes and other highly sought awards. Yet scientists can come together for the greater good. People can learn to look beyond their differences and personal goals to achieve something magnificent. Countries can unite in the search of information and new frontiers in an atmosphere of the greater good.

Don’t you wish politicians could do the same?



All the information above came from these articles.

1Cooper, Brenda. (14 April 2019) “The first black hole image: what can we really see.” The Guardian. Viewed 4/14/2019.

2Wikipedia (14 April 2019) “Messier 87” Viewed 4/14/2019.

3Drake, Nadia (10 April 2019) “First-ever picture of a black hole unveiled.” National Viewed 4/14/2019.